You Are Too Blessed Not To Give Thanks

sunsetbayI feel strong displeasure for unappreciative people. It is frustrating to prepare a special meal, plan a party, find a special gift uniquely suited for that person, or some other unexpected show of appreciation only to be met with a mumbled “thanks,” or, worse yet, no thanks at all. It is more disturbing to go out of your way to do something special for someone and they react as if we owed them or that what we did was nothing special. I do not think that it is praise that we want; we want other people to recognize and appreciate the effort exerted for them. Is God angered when we ignore His kindness?

I wonder sometimes God’s reaction when He blesses richly and some fail to notice or thank Him. Sometimes we do not express the common courtesy to God that we do with people. When Jesus healed ten lepers and only one returned to give thanks, Jesus noticed.

Thanksgiving should characterize our life. It should be a natural part of our personality to notice what others do for us and give thanks. It means much to the person who serves us at the restaurant or from whom we buy services; yes it is their job to do this but we should show the appreciation that we would like if we were in their position. We may start to realize just how much others do for us if we look for opportunities to thank others for their consideration and efforts.

Some people have problems giving thanks

Some are not thankful. A person with an exalted self-perception who sees no need for God will feel no debt of thanks to Him. Some are dissatisfied with the way their life turned out but cannot see the good things that they can thank God for. These people moan and gripe that things are not going their way and cannot see the good for their self-imposed misery. They can’t find blessings in adversity. Those who are thankful have a sense of gratitude for what God has done and wonderment as to why He is concerned about them.

Some people are forgetful. Some make supplication to God but forget to thank Him for His blessings. Luke 17:11-19 records the story of ten lepers healed by Jesus but only one returned to Jesus to give him thanks. No one hears the expression of thankfulness you forgot to send. Thank people immediately so you will not forget.

How can we become more thankful?

Consider how you have been blessed

People are often fond of asking, “why me?” Usually we ask, “Why am I sick, being laid off work, or having financial problems.” We do not usually ask

  • “Why was I born into a country with many great freedoms including the freedom to assemble and worship God as I should?”
  • “Why was I born into a family or blessed with friends who taught me the gospel?”
  • “Why me? Why do I live in a country with the best medical treatment available so that I do not suffer many chronic illnesses and am able, if I listen to the doctor, to live a long, healthy life?”
  • “Why was I born in a city that is not in constant turmoil from warring parties trying to destroy each other? Why do I go to bed at night without the sound of gunshots and bombs exploding outside?”
  • “Why am I able to read when 861 million people (2/3 of which are women) cannot read?”
  • “Why am I able to ask, ‘what’s for dinner?’ when millions in the world have no food to eat?”
  • “Why do I have a Bible, translated into my native language, that I can own when, for many centuries Bibles were only kept by the elite scholars and very wealthy people?”
  • There are many more things that we could ask, “why me,” but these are sufficient to remind us that we are far more blessed than we could possibly imagine.

Make thankfulness part of your daily prayers

According to Philippians 4:6-7 thanksgiving should be part of your daily prayers. Notice that thanksgiving  is linked with supplication—appealing to God to grant a request. We should not be afraid to bring our requests to God but we must remember to thank Him for listing, for His wisdom in answering, and for the answer we receive.

According to Colossians 2:2 we are to be vigilant in prayer (implies diligence and watchfulness) with thanksgiving to God. Thanksgiving in prayer should not be occasional nor should we need to be reminded to thank God. We should constantly be aware of the blessings that surround us and give thanks to God for them.

Practice Thankfulness at Home

Thankfulness and gratitude should fill our homes. Spouses should thank each other often for the things they do for one another. Thank your spouse for being married to you and putting up with you. Thank your spouse for the work they do around the house, or the work that brings in income for the house. Thank them for coming home to you at night and not going out to bars or participating in behavior that would endanger the marriage. Do not forget the common courtesies; thanking them when they refill your tea glass, when they pass the biscuits, when they get your door…

Parents should teach their children by example and thank them for things they do and, sometimes, for being themselves. Thank them for being good children and point out something in particular that they do well. Thank them for the drawings, crafts, and other things they make for you. Parents and teachers encourage kids to say “please” and “thank you” early in life so they will notice and appreciate acts of kindness. We get frustrated with adults that forgot this lesson.

Children, especially, should thank their parents often. They sacrifice much for their children. They provide opportunities for entertainment, personal development, and recreation. They provide spiritual opportunities and, hopefully, instill Bible-based lessons for living. Thank your mom or dad each time they make food for you. Thank them for letting you participate in sports, take music or art lessons, or get involved in school activities. Thank them for bringing you to church services and teaching you about God and trying to help you understand how to be a decent person.

The God of Second Chances

In golf it is called a Mulligan. When playing games with friends it is a “do over.” We mess up something and we are given another chance to do it right. In our spiritual lives God gives us a chance to be reconciled to Him when sin separates us from Him. He forgives and gives us another chance to live pleasing to Him. Thankfully, He continues to give us opportunities to succeed after we fail.

When God brought the flood predicted in Genesis 6, He cleansed the world of wickedness and began recreating the world anew. The thoughts of men were on evil continually. They were lustful and violent and God was sorry that He made man. He was pleased with Noah and instructed Noah to build an ark to save his household and animals that would repopulate the earth. God gave men a chance to repent at Noah’s preaching but they ignored him, 2 Peter 2:5. By destroying the wicked unrepentant sinners God gave the world a second chance. Sadly, mankind has returned to violent and lustful thoughts and dwelling on evil continually. God has promised that He will destroy the world for good but is giving men an opportunity to repent even now, 2 Peter 3:9-13

Spiritually, we are cleansed from the filthiness of sin when we are immersed in water for the remission of sins, Romans 6:1-11, 2 Peter 3:21. We enjoy a new life in which Christ lives in us. The lustful and wicked body of sin is crucified and dead to us. God gives us a second chance to live a life pleasing to Him. The encounter between Jesus and the woman caught in adultery, recorded in John 8:1-11, demonstrates the merciful pardon that Jesus gives to those who sorrow for their sins and the exhortation to “sin no more.”

When we sin after becoming a child of God, we have the promise of God’s forgiveness if we repent, 1 John 2:1.  When Peter denied the Lord he wept bitterly for his betrayal. Yet Matthew 26:30-35, 65-68 records how Jesus forgave Peter. Peter became very useful in the kingdom of God and did not deny His Lord again. We can have complete forgiveness when we repent, 1 Corinthians 6:8-11.

If you have been forgiven by God and are His child, don’t waste your second chance. If you are not a child of God, come to Him in obedience so your sins can be washed away and you can enjoy a new life in Him.

Psalm 40: The God Who Rescues

Imagine being trapped in quicksand with no friend to help. The situation seems hopeless but you do not give up hope. Then, out of the forest, a rescuer frees you from the trap and brings you to safety. You feel relief and gratitude and thank your rescuer for saving you. This is the message of Psalm 40 except the quicksand is a miry bog of destruction and God is the rescuer.

Trust in God

Although God is in control of all things, he allowed David to fall into peril. God is our rescuer but He allow us to fall into trials to test and strengthen us. Occasionally we need difficulties and trials to test our faith in God and develop trust in Him. While in the pit he faced a crisis: put his trust in God (v.1) or man (v.4)? David knew that men would fail him so he waited on the Lord for deliverance. He trusted that God would not abandon him. That trust was well placed because God drew him out of the pit, placed him on solid ground, and put a new song in his mouth. This new song is likely a new song of praise about this recent deliverance. One more thing for which he could thank God.

Obedience to God
His trust in God was not based on the ritual of his worship but obedience from the heart. He did not have a superstitious view of God where the person who performed the right rituals would please God regardless of his lack of faith or insincerity. Today some people have a superstitious faith believing they can live immoral lives but go to church (at least on special days of the year) or give a regular contribution and God will accept them. Malachi 1:6-14 records God’s displeasure with those who think they please Him by going through empty rituals. God’s desire was that they shut the doors and quit pretending.

David’s focus was obedience from the heart. Such obedience, that included worship, was his delight. God’s law was written on his heart. It was an integral part of who he was, not just something he did.

Proclaim God’s Goodness
Having been delivered by God, he shared the good news of his deliverance with others. Of course, sharing the good news of deliverance from the mire of destruction is what the Christian does when he proclaims the gospel to others. Consider how David proclaimed the glory of mercy and salvation and how we should follow his example with the gospel:

  • He proclaimed the news with unrestrained lips (v.9). The greatest hindrance to the spread of the gospel is not oppression of enemies who want to silence us under threat of death but of Christians who restrain the gospel from leaving their lips for fear of embarrassment or ridicule.
  • He did not hide the news of his deliverance within (v.10). He did not keep the good news to himself. When we discover a great song, movie, phone app, or book we are eager to share it with others, post it on Facebook, and enthusiastically recommend it. The greatest news of all, that should be enriching every part of our life, can sadly become the best kept secret in a Christian’s life. Do not put your light under a bushel but on a stand that it may light the way for others! (Matthew 5:15)
  • He did not conceal God’s love and faithfulness in his life from the congregation (v.10) and proclaimed His great deeds (v.5). We must remind fellow Christians of God’s goodness and faithfulness during our difficult times. Other Christians may be going through difficult times and need to be reminded that God will deliver them even though they may have to suffer for a little while longer.
Although he praised God for deliverance, he knew that other evils would encompass him again (v.12). However, since he trusted in God and obeyed Him, he trusted that God would deliver him from future trials as well. The result of deliverance is not freedom from trials but more trials, more deliverance, and more reasons to praise God.
The trials provide opportunities for God to demonstrate his mercy, love, and faithfulness (vv.11-15). Our illusions of self-sufficiency fade and we realize that we need God all of the time. David closed with a hope that others would trust God just as he did and share his joy in a relationship with a loving and caring God.
As for me, I am poor and needy,
but the Lord takes thought for me.
You are my help and my deliverer;
do not delay, O my God!
(Psalm 40:17 ESV)

Dead to the World

The Christian life is full of death. First, Jesus had to die in order to provide a sacrifice to atone for our sins and reconcile us to God. Second, we must die to the world in order to live with Christ. Paul told the Romans that they must die to sin, and be buried with Christ in baptism, so that Christ would live in them, Romans 6:2-4, Galatians 2:20.

Jesus made plain the seriousness of the disciple’s commitment when He said, “And he who does not take his cross and follow after Me is not worthy of Me. He who finds his life will lose it, and he who loses his life for My sake will find it.”, Matthew 10:38-39. Dietrich Bonhoffer said, “When Christ calls a man, He bids him come and die.” By taking the cross we signify the ultimate price we are willing to pay in order to be His disciple. Although we may not pay with our lives for following Jesus, we must prove our willingness to do so by the daily sacrifices that the Christian life demands.

Paul told the Galatians that he crucified his evil passions and desires and followed the Spirit’s directives, Galatians 5:24-25. Through the Spirit inspired word, we can know what actions to cease and what work we should be doing. By crucifying our passions and desires, we endeavor to eliminate the desires that would lead us from God.

If we are not fully committed and allow any evil desires to live, Satan can use them to lure us away from God, James 1:14-16. Often evil desires that are allowed to survive will breed other evil desires and resurrect some that we have attempted to destroy. When we commit to Jesus, we must do so with out whole heart, mind, and strength.

Some desires may fight back and take some time to subdue. However, we must pray to God for strength and not allow ourselves to get into situations that will stir up our lusts. If drunkenness appeals to a person, he must stay away from places where it will be easy and acceptable for him to indulge. If sexual immorality is a weakness, he must avoid situations and people that will provide opportunity for sin.

The transformation must be drastic. Jesus said that our salvation is so important that if we had to tear out our eye or our hand and throw it far from us to keep from sinning, it would be worth the cost, Matthew 5:29-30. Of course, it should not require such drastic measures to keep us from sinning, but we may have to cast old friends, old hangouts, old forms of entertainment, etc. far from us to save our soul from death.

When I become dead to the world, I will not be influenced by the world. When a person is baptized, we sometimes sing:

“Dead to the world to voices that call me,
dead to the old life of folly and sin,
Satan may call the world may entreat me,
there is no voice that answers within…
dead to the joys that once did enthrall me—
Yet ‘tis not I, Christ liveth in me,”
(Sanderson and Chisholm, “A New Creature,” Hymns for Worship (Revised) , p.487)

We will fight to ignore the entreaties of the world, however, when we die we will go to a place where evil will no longer call to us, Revelation 21:7. If we make it to that home, we have nothing to boast about but should say with Paul, “But God forbid that I should boast except in the cross of our Lord Jesus Christ, by whom the world has been crucified to me, and I to the world,” Galatians 6:14.

Turning Spiritual Defeats Into Victories For God

Samson, the once mighty warrior of Israel, was enslaved and blinded by his enemies. The Philistines who once feared him now mocked him. They made him turn the grinding wheel at the mill, a job usually performed by beasts of burden. And when they gathered for a feast, they brought him from the prison to embarrass him and make fun of him for their entertainment.

Perhaps when Samson lost his eyesight his insight increased. If it did, he would have reflected on how his impulsive choices and passion for the wrong things continued to get him in trouble. His poor choice of women, based on their physical beauty not character, caused him problems and ultimately led to his current tragic situation. It may be that he realized that his divinely given strength, which was now lost, was from God and that he should have had strong spiritual strength to match his physical power. What we do know is that in the final moments of his life, he trusted in God’s ability to  use him for good even in this desperate condition.

When the Philistines were holding a feast in the temple of the idol Dagon, they brought Samson from the prison to humiliate him for their entertainment. As Samson stood near the supporting pillars of the temple, he asked God to give him strength like he had before. God granted the request and Samson pushed away the pillars of Dagon’s temple killing more of the Philistines as he died than he did while alive. God brought a victory over the Philistines through the humiliation and defeat of Samson.

Christian Defeat

Christians know the pain of defeat. We did or said something wrong. We knew what was right but did wrong anyway. We felt the sting of disappointment and the shame of sin. But as Christians we also were comforted when we knew God would forgive us for our transgression. Perhaps we had a hard time forgiving ourselves even when we knew God forgave us. Although God gives us victory over sin through the blood of Jesus, there are often other victories that God can give us in this defeat.

Warn and Rescue

If you have been delivered from a sin, addiction, or other destructive behavior then you know how to help others who are in that situation. A person who has been delivered from drug addiction or alcoholism can help another addict in a special way because they have practical advice, gained from experience, to help rescue the person. They know the thinking and attitudes that must be overcome to break the addiction. Those who have committed fornication can warn others of the guilt and consequences that accompany such sin.

When Peter wrote, in 2 Peter 3:17, “You therefore, beloved, since you know this beforehand, beware lest you also fall from your own steadfastness, being led away with the error of the wicked”, wrote from experience. Perhaps he could still hear himself tell Jesus “even if all the other disciples deny you, I never will deny you” and the people in the courtyard, “I do not know the man.” When Peter warns us not to be arrogant about our ability to remain faithful in temptation, he speaks from experience. He was able to use his defeat, the denial of Jesus, to teach others to remain faithful.

Teach Others of God’s Grace

When we have made shameful and disgraceful choices, the peace we have from God’s forgiveness can be an important message to share with others. While passing through Samaria, Jesus talked with a woman who was embarrassed about her marital choices (John 4). When she was convinced Jesus was the Messiah, she went to the people of her town and invited them to meet Jesus. Consider the testimony she used to invite them to see Jesus: “Come see a man who told me all things I ever did.” The things she did were nothing to brag about, and likely the people knew well that she had no pride in her choices, but she used her defeat to bring souls to the one who could give them all victory over Satan.

We do not need to sin so we can gain experiences to help others. God wants us to live pure and holy lives in the midst of a wicked world. But when we do sin and are defeated by Satan, we can use our experiences to help others out of the same kind of sin and demonstrate what a loving, merciful, and forgiving God we have.