Jill went to visit her grandparents. Her grandmother spent hours in the kitchen cooking a special dinner for the family. However, when Jill came to the table and saw the food, she said:
“I don’t like that. It looks yucky.”
Our words have the power to hurt or build up the people we love. Even when we do not mean to be cruel, thoughtless comments can deeply affect others.
Points to Discuss
Discuss this scenario with your parents or friends, and think about the following questions:
- How do you think Jill’s comment made her grandmother feel after all her hard work?
- How could Jill have handled the situation in a more polite and loving way?
- Is it okay to make comments like this to your own mom or dad when they prepare food for you?
- What does the Bible say about using kind and encouraging words with others?
Private Reflection Journal
What is one thing from this study that you can apply to your life today? Jot down your thoughts below.