Loving As Christ Loved

The type of love Christians should show to one another is beautifully described in Colossians 3:12-17.

Therefore, as the elect of God, holy and beloved… — Colossians 3:12

The word “therefore” connects this to the previous verses. It reminds us that we have put off our old sinful ways and put on a new self, raised with Christ.

Because of this transformation, we are now the elect (chosen people) of God. We answered His call through the gospel (2 Thessalonians 2:13-14) and are called to be holy—sanctified (set apart for God’s holy purpose) just as He is holy (1 Peter 1:15-16).

Let Peace Rule as an Umpire

Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, since as members of one body you were called to peace. And be thankful. — Colossians 3:15

The peace of God is meant to act as an “umpire” in our hearts, directing our lives and settling disputes.

When we are at peace with God, it becomes much easier to maintain peace with our Christian brothers and sisters. This is true even with those who test our patience. We achieve unity in the church when we are all guided by God’s peace and actively pursue what builds up others (Romans 14:19).

Learning to Accept the Wrong

We see a powerful example of seeking peace in 1 Corinthians 6:1-11. Paul warns Christians not to take fellow believers to court. It is far better to suffer a personal loss than to disgrace the name of Christ and the church before the world.

Sometimes, keeping the peace means we must choose to “accept the wrong.”

While it is not wrong to approach a brother about a debt or damage caused by negligence, we must handle it biblically. If he refuses to listen to you or the church, it is better to accept the loss and trust God, our great Judge, to administer justice.