Encouraging Words

A Christian’s language must be godly and reflect a heart that is consecrated (set apart for a holy purpose) for God.

The apostle Paul commanded the Ephesians to let no corrupt talk come out of their mouths. Instead, they were to speak words of edification (spiritual encouragement) and grace (Ephesians 4:29).

He also instructed the Colossians to walk wisely around non-believers and to speak gracefully and thoughtfully (Colossians 4:6). Likewise, he urged Titus to encourage young men to use sound speech that cannot be criticized (Titus 2:8).

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Edifying Our Brothers and Sisters

Our words must encourage and build up everyone, especially fellow believers. Our speech should be graceful and kind.

Even when we must speak difficult truths or offer a rebuke (correction), we must do so with love (Ephesians 4:15).

Our words also have the power to comfort the downhearted (1 Thessalonians 5:14). Too many brothers and sisters suffer alone without receiving a word of exhortation (encouragement) from those who love them.

While praying for others is essential, we should also call them or send a card to show our concern. Since God comforts us in our trials, we must extend that same comfort to others (2 Corinthians 1:4).

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Defending Our Faith

Christians must always be ready to give a defense (a reasoned explanation) of their faith with a meek (gentle) and respectful spirit (1 Peter 3:15).

As the writer of Proverbs notes:

“The heart of the righteous studies how to answer, but the mouth of the wicked pours forth evil.” — Proverbs 15:28

We must study the Scriptures to prepare a sound defense of what we believe. A foolish person might respond to questions by saying:

“My church believes…”

“My preacher says…”

“Well, I think…”

We cannot answer the world with human opinions. We must know why we believe what we believe and be ready to defend it with Scripture. When we do this, we tame our tongue and use it as a powerful tool for good.